My best friend is dating a black guy

Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. Their relationship is working because of the "scandalous and forbidden" element. Here was a woman who I thought was my good girlfriend. We had gotten together a few times and I had told her things -- personal things about my ex and our relationship, why I was getting divorced, etc.

I shared things with her and trusted her. Weeks later, I saw my ex leaving her house. It was like a stab in the heart. Not really because of him, but because of her. I was utterly shocked and in disbelief. After those feelings came anger.

Immense fury like a caged tiger. I wanted to punch both of them! How could they do this to me?! I hated them and everyone else who I thought could possibly know about their relationship. I felt like a victim of deceit.

I thought about them giggling and laughing and kissing and being blissfully happy. I think, "My ex is dating my friend" is very common, especially if you live in the suburbs, where everyone knows everyone. If you find yourself in this situation, here are some tips on how to handle it and how to keep from going insane: What they are doing is really uncool and unacceptable.

YOU have done nothing to warrant their behavior. When that wears off, and everyone in the community moves on to the next piece of gossip, and your ex and your friend really get to know each other, the appeal will fade.

He or she could be doing this to you to act out his or her passive aggressive anger. How sick is that? Remove yourself from it and rise above. Grit your teeth, accept it, act classy and show grace to the outside world.

I remember people in my neighborhood would tell me they saw them out and I would seriously cringe, and then go home and cry. Make sure not to react in front of others because it could get back to your ex and your friend I mean, your ex friend. Plus, when the relationship ends, the only thing people will remember is how you reacted.

DO NOT make a scene and get into a girl fight with the girl. Call your REAL girlfriends. The fact that this girl did this to you is probably making you feel insecure about girl friendships.

So, call your girls up! Call the ones you know are your true friends. They will support you more than you could have possibly imagined. They will assure you that they are your best friends and that you are loved.

What are the chances they are going to end up happily ever after? Especially if he or she is newly separated. If it does, you can handle it because of tip 8. Focus on your own life. The person is obviously is a bad friend and you are getting a divorce, regardless of him or her, right?

So, let them have their fun and concentrate on making your own life better. Focus on your kids, your career, and your love life, if you choose. Confront your friend and apologize. We really like each other. If she goes off on you, at least you can say you handled it the best way you could have. Jackie Pilossoph is the author of the blog, Divorced Girl Smiling. Pilossoph is a weekly business features reporter and columnist for Sun-Times Media.

She lives in Chicago with her two kids.


Watch Black Friend gay porn videos for free, here on pengobatanherpes.tk Discover the growing collection of high quality Most Relevant gay XXX movies and clips. No other sex tube is more popular and features more Black Friend gay scenes than Pornhub! Browse through our impressive selection of porn videos in HD quality on any device you own. What if I don't like the person my best friend is dating? when it comes to dating and relating, there really are very few black and white answers. Many times the answers lie in the gray areas, and in the deeper questions. Christi tells about a close friend who fell in love with the “perfect” guy: tall, athletic, good-looking and fun.

Total 1 comments.
#1 22.01.2019 Š² 02:03 Socaldj:
On some site I have already read such an article, although do not care